People Pleaser...

It is much harder to be unique than it is to follow the crowd. My generation (90's on up) seems to think that is important to have everybody like them and to have a lot of "friends". In order to achieve these grand feats they tend to dress alike, talk alike, listen to the same music, and never think outside of the box. For years I've heard and seen people being oucast because they don't fit a mold, can't be categorized, or have what seem to be eccentric tastes. It's a shame that so many people never even try to go against the grain, but instead choose to hide their passions and talents. Some people will never learn that being a people pleaser is the cause of their issues. The more you try to please people the more they change what they want from you....you can never please everyone. It makes no sense to even attempt to please everyone or have everyone be your friend because it never ends well. you don't want to find yourself saying "Et tu Brute?!" but it's up to you....so choose your actions wisely.